The Power Dynamic Was the Crime: About the Girls of the Epstein Case

Gretchen Wood • November 23, 2025


There are moments in history where a single story exposes something bigger than itself.


Something uncomfortable, painful, and incredibly revealing about who we are as a culture.


The Epstein case is one of those moments.


Because this isn't just a story about one man or one scandal.


It's a story about:

  • power without accountability
  • innocence without protection
  • trauma without justice
  • and a culture willing to look away


It's a story about vulnerability meeting exploitation in its most predatory form.


And it's a story that continues to hurt the survivors, long after the events themselves have passed.



What Happens When a Child Is Seen as an Object?


The harm inflicted on those young girls didn't end when the abuse ended.


It followed them in silence.


It followed them through:

  • disbelief.
  • shame.
  • public denial.
  • the questioning of their character.
  • the erasure of their innocence.
  • the scrutiny of strangers.


It followed them because the world chose not to protect them when they needed it most.


And that wound lingers...


  • in their bodies
  • in their nervous systems
  • in their relationships
  • in their sense of worth
  • in their ability to feel safe anywhere



The Lie That No One Wants to Face


I've talked to and seen comments from people who want to believe that:


  • “It couldn’t have been that bad.”
  • “They must've known what they were doing.”
  • “They made choices.”
  • “They wanted the money.”
  • “They should’ve spoken up sooner.”


This only protects the public from seeing the truth.


Because the truth is uncomfortable.


  • The truth is painful.
  • The truth demands change.


And lies are easier.


  • They’re cleaner.
  • Simpler.
  • Less confronting.


It's easier to believe a lie than to face the complexity of a painful truth.



The Machinery That Protected Him


Predators don't operate alone.


They need:

  • access
  • credibility
  • enablers
  • loopholes
  • silence
  • and a system built to look the other way


Epstein didn't succeed because he was clever.


He succeeded because he was allowed.


Because powerful people with influence, wealth, platforms, and reputations to protect

  • believed their comfort mattered more than a child’s safety.



And Worse Still...


Most of these people didn’t just ignore Epstein's actions…


  • They participated.
  • They benefitted.
  • And then, they protected themselves.


As horrifying as the crimes were, the cover-up added a second betrayal.


Because it told those girls:


  • “You don't matter."
  • "Your pain is disposable."
  • "Your truth is negotiable.”


The cost was their lives.


Not just their childhoods.

Their lives.


  • Because trauma doesn’t expire.
  • Shame doesn’t end when the headlines do.
  • Silence doesn’t heal wounds.


And the reason survivors struggle decades later is because their nervous systems are carrying what culture refused to hold.



The Public Trauma of the Aftermath


  • It's hard to heal from something while the world is still debating whether it happened.
  • It's hard to move forward when the people who participated are protected.
  • It's hard to reclaim your voice when the system taught you that silence is safer.


And in this case, the public discourse itself has become its own form of harm.


  • The scrutiny.
  • The speculation.
  • The trivialization.
  • The mocking tone.
  • The political weaponization.
  • The endless conspiracy theories.


These girls didn't just endure exploitation.


They've endured global re-traumatization.



What Accountability Really Means


Accountability isn't only legal.

  • It's cultural.


And it begins with how we talk about survivors.


It needs:

  • belief
  • empathy
  • nuance
  • listening
  • discomfort
  • responsibility
  • cultural courage


Because until we learn to see girls as sacred and not disposable, nothing meaningful will change.


  • Not in the courts
  • Not in our homes
  • Not in our systems
  • Not in our culture



For the Survivors Reading This


  • Your pain is real.
  • Your confusion is valid.
  • Your healing deserves protection.
  • Your voice matters.
  • Your body is not a crime scene.
  • Your life is not a headline.


And For the Rest of Us


Our responsibility is simple:

  • We witness.
  • We believe.
  • We listen.
  • We learn.
  • We refuse to look away.
  • We refuse to minimize.
  • We refuse to let silence win.


Because when culture chooses truth over comfort, we all heal a little.


And when we honor the sacredness of girls, the world becomes safer for everyone.


In support and solidarity,


Gretchen

SOMATIC TRAUMA SPECIALIST + ENERGETIC INTUITIVE

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