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Some of the things my children described seeing photos and videos of included:
- Their father's girlfriend naked in his bed, in what my children called "the star position"
- My daughter shared that this particular photo has made her feel very uncomfortable around her father's girlfriend as a result.
- Their father's private parts entering his girlfriend's private parts
- Conversations like:
- Father: "Where's my %!@# right now?"
- Girlfriend: "In my @$$."
- Father: "In my @$$... daddy."
- Girlfriend: "In my @$$, daddy!!"
My son (10), daughter (9), and their friend (10) had never been exposed to any similar material prior to this experience. Being exposed to content this explicit in nature with the adults in their lives at the center of it made this issue exponentially problematic to deal with during the aftermath.